I was scrolling through Facebook the other day when I came across and article titled “Energy Vampires and How to Deal with Them…”

I didn’t read the article because I believe that the term “energy vampires” is a little over the top and is only a “scare headline” often used to grab attention…

You see we all have moments of giving and moments of receiving energy in exchanges with other people…

We are human beings and giving and receiving is what we do…

And here’s a brief overview of how this giving and receiving of energy works…

The people around us can affect us in two different ways:

  1. Natural Differences in Vibrational Frequencies
  2. Exchanging of Emotional Energy

 

Different Vibrational Frequencies of Individuals

Every person has their own quantity and frequency of energy and generally we get along well with those who have a similar vibrational frequency to ourselves…

People who are light-hearted, fun and playful will tend to have a higher frequency than those who are serious, critical and analytical…

Dr. David Hawkins, author of the book Power vs. Force, conducted many studies over a period of 20 years, determining the level of calibration (vibrational frequency) of people as determined by their attitudes and beliefs; and what he found was quite staggering…

According to Dr. Hawkins’ research, approximately 85% of the world’s population operates at a level that makes them weak. Or put in another way, their thoughts, beliefs and attitudes “subtract” from the total pool of human consciousness…

This means that there is only a small percentage, approximately 15%, of the world’s population who are calibrating at a frequency that holds together the balance of human consciousness…

You see, not everyone is equal in energetic frequency and this is why people usually only like people who are like themselves…

Lower vibrating frequencies have a “negative” effect on you because your energy field will automatically try to match the one you encounter as you engage the person with attention, making you feel uncomfortable and tired…

This happens because there is a law of nature at work in which “everything seeks balance…”

Higher vibrations have the opposite effect and raise your frequency and they make you feel good. This is why you always feel good in the presence of genuine happy content people…

Exchanges of Emotional Energy

The quality of your interactions with others also has a big impact on your wellbeing because your interactions with others are governed by another law of nature – that being, “energy flows where attention goes”…

So when you interact with another not only do your energy fields try to “calibrate” and match each other, there is also an exchange of energy – one person gives while the other person receives and vice versa…

The person (or people) who is listening is “giving” their energy (attention) to the speaker. This is why if you are relating to someone who talks a lot and who is not a good listener in return, you often feel tired and drained after the experience…

And even more so, when you are interacting with people who complain a lot or always see fault in others or the world. With these interactions you “give” your energy by listening to the person in the first instance and your energy is lowered even further because the negative emotions have a slower frequency than positive emotions as Dr. David Hawkins has proven…

I hope that this brief overview will help you to become more aware of what is happening in all your interactions with others and helps you to create more fulfilling relationships…

Live at 100%!

Rohan James

PS: For more detail you may enjoy my book “I Just Want To Be Happy!” (scroll down page)